Nigerian woman becomes first-time mum after 2 failed IVFs, 4 miscarriages

After seven long years marked by heartbreak, loss, and resilience, Nigerian woman Tola Brown is celebrating the arrival of her first child.

In a heartfelt post shared on X, Tola recounted her journey through infertility — one filled with emotional and physical trials. Her testimony, accompanied by striking maternity photos, details a story of two failed IVF procedures, four miscarriages, and multiple surgeries for uterine complications.

Despite the immense challenges, Tola said she never gave up hope. Her words reflect both the pain of her past and the joy of her long-awaited breakthrough.

“2 failed IVF, 4 miscarriages, 4 uterine surgeries (polyps and reoccurring adhesions), PCOS, 7years of trying—ha! infertility dealt with me. Lost myself, drowned me so much I became a shadow,” she wrote.

“Lost my businesses, mental health in disarray, shook my faith, friends became strangers, shattered dreams. I felt my body betraying me over and over, debts, uncertainty. There were nights I held my womb and begged God.”

Tola’s post continued with an outpouring of gratitude and a message of solidarity for other women still on their journey to motherhood.

“Wo, I will say this story soonest. I’m just grateful to be worthy to become a mother. My heart is so full, I can’t stop crying. He’s so… TTC Mums – I see you, I understand you, I was you, I am you.”

“I understand everything you’re going through, the words, the let down. Hold on, God is still in the business of answering prayers. Your story isn’t over, whatever you believe in will work for you.”

Her story has since resonated with many online, offering both inspiration and comfort to those walking a similar path.