42-year-old woman reveals why she’s never had s3x despite earlier marriage

A 42-year-old  woman has opened up about never having had sex — even though she has been married before.

Rhasha, from Jacksonville, Florida-United States is one of the cast members on TLC’s upcoming reality series Virgins, which follows four adults in their 30s and 40s who have yet to experience sexual intimacy. The show documents their personal journeys as they explore love, relationships, and self-awareness.

In a preview clip shared with Daily Mail, Rhasha speaks candidly about her sexual inexperience, revealing that she’s never dated men casually — and that her former marriage was not based on romance, but rather a desire to help her then-partner secure U.S. residency.

“I wasn’t attracted to guys or seen him sexually till I was like in my mid-20s,” she says. “I think it was just being overweight and not having confidence in myself.”

In a confessional, she reflects further on how body image issues influenced her dating life.

“I’ve always been a big girl.Being overweight definitely affected me meeting men because I didn’t think that I was attractive to men, so I didn’t get approached by guys.”

Rhasha’s marriage lasted 10 months, but she confirms that the relationship was never consummated. Speaking to a sex therapist on the show, she shares how that chapter of her life felt like a major disappointment.

“I am a divorced virgin and that is the truth,” she says.“He was an international student from South Korea, but he was living in Minnesota at the time.We met on a dating app online and we matched. We were in touch for about four to five years, just texting and messaging.But he was so sweet and made me laugh, so when he told me that he didn’t want to go back to his home country, I didn’t want him to either.So, I wanted to help him because I thought I was in love with him.”

Now committed to changing her circumstances, Rhasha is working with a sex therapist in hopes of experiencing intimacy for the first time.

“I have so much love to give and I’m such a nurturing person,” she tells her therapist. “But I don’t know if I want to get married because I was before and that was a debacle, okay.”

Set to premiere on June 9, TLC’s Virgins also features three other cast members: Deanne, 35, who is determined to hold out for the right man; Alex, 34, who still lives in his parents’ attic; and Sonali, 37, who has had minimal romantic experience.

Described as a “wild, warm, and wonderfully awkward ride,” the show follows these late bloomers as they challenge their comfort zones, work with intimacy coaches, and even attend unconventional classes — all in pursuit of physical and emotional breakthroughs.

“After years of missed connections and dating horror stories, these late bloomers are done playing it safe,” the network teases.“They’re stepping outside their comfort zones and taking big swings to finally go all the way, emotionally and physically.”

(DAILY MAIL)